How to Create a Personal Style That Reflects Your Unique Personality
- Vanessa Perkins
- Mar 27
- 2 min read
Ever feel like your closet is having an identity crisis? One day you're channeling boss babe energy, the next you’re rocking cozy chic, and somewhere in between, there's that one outfit that makes you question all your life choices? You’re not alone. But here’s the secret,
personal style isn’t about following trends; it’s about owning who you are and letting your wardrobe (and attitude) reflect that unapologetically.

Defining Your Style Persona
Your personal style should scream you—not just whisper politely in the background. Here’s how to find and embrace it:
Find Your Fashion Icons: Who inspires you? Is it the edgy confidence of Rihanna, the classic elegance of Audrey Hepburn, or the effortlessly cool vibe of Zendaya? Take notes and start experimenting.
Color, Texture, & Mood: What makes you feel alive? Maybe you’re a bold print queen, a minimalist goddess, or a vintage soul. Try different styles until you find what makes you feel like the main character.
Ditch the Rules: Fashion “rules” are meant to be broken. White after Labor Day? We laugh in the face of outdated traditions.
Confidence is Key: The best accessory is confidence. If you feel amazing, you look amazing. Period.
Boudoir & Personal Style
Speaking of confidence, there’s nothing like a boudoir session to help you step fully into your unique power. At my studio in Kent, Washington, just outside of Seattle, I’ve seen firsthand how the right lingerie, poses, and mindset can completely transform the way you see yourself. Whether you're channeling Old Hollywood glam, sultry dark romance, or playful pin-up vibes, your session should feel like you. Boudoir is about embracing your essence and letting your style shine through in an intimate, empowering way. Same goes for outside of the bedroom!

Curate Your Signature Look
Here’s how to refine your style so that every outfit (or boudoir look) is an extension of your personality:
Declutter & Define: Get rid of what doesn’t make you feel fabulous and focus on pieces that spark joy (thanks, Marie Kondo!).
Experiment Without Fear: Fashion is supposed to be fun. Mix high and low pieces, blend aesthetics, and don’t be afraid to be a little extra.
Find Your Staples: Statement pieces are great, but having go-to staples that fit and flatter you effortlessly is a game changer.
Own It, Babe
Your personal style is your visual signature, it tells the world who you are before you even say a word. Whether it’s through your everyday fashion or a boudoir session at my Kent, WA studio, your style should make you feel like the confident, radiant force that you are.
So go forth, express yourself, and most importantly, own your style like the powerhouse you were born to be!
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